
You know that feeling when you’re reminded that “you really need to get started on that will” or that inner critic asks “why haven’t you organized your passwords yet?” and your brain immediately says "Nope, not today!" while frantically searching for something else to do? Anything else to do?
Trust me, I get it. It's like standing at the base of Mount Everest with a tiny backpack and wondering how on earth you're going to make it to the top. The papers, the decisions, the conversations you know you need to have... it can feel completely overwhelming.
But here's what I've learned from working with countless clients: you don't have to climb that mountain all at once. In fact, trying to do everything at the same time is a bit like trying to eat an entire holiday dinner in one bite – not recommended!
Why We Resist (Even When We Know Better)
It's fascinating, really. We know getting our affairs in order would bring peace of mind. We've seen what happens when people don't plan ahead. And yet... we hesitate. We procrastinate. We suddenly develop an intense interest in reorganizing our sock drawer.
Why? Because our brain is actually trying to protect us! When we start thinking about rest-of-life planning, our primitive brain waves its little arms and shouts "Danger! Danger!" It doesn't realize that planning actually creates safety and peace of mind – it just knows we're thinking about mortality, and that feels scary.
The Not-So-Sexy Secrets to Success
Ready for the secrets to making this journey manageable?
It's surprisingly simple, though perhaps not as exciting as we might hope. Here's the real deal:
1. Start with acknowledging your desire for change. When your brain yells "Stop! Danger!" (and it will), just reassure it and say "Thanks for trying to protect me, but I've got this."
2. Begin exactly where you are today. Maybe that means just making a list. Or having one conversation. Baby steps aren't just okay – they're perfect.
3. Expect the journey to have ups and downs. Some days you'll feel like a planning superhero, others you'll wonder why you started. Both are normal!
4. Find your support team. Could you climb Everest alone? Maybe. But wouldn't you rather have an experienced guide who knows the path and can help you avoid the crevasses?
5. Remember the surprise gift in all this: when you face mortality thoughtfully, you actually end up living more fully. It's one of life's beautiful paradoxes.
Your Invitation to Begin
If you're feeling that mix of "I know I need to do this" and "I don't know where to start," I have a suggestion: book an introductory session with me. Together, we'll look at where you are, identify your top priorities, and make plans to get one concrete task completed.
Just one task. Because sometimes that's all it takes to turn an overwhelming mountain into a series of manageable steps.
In that session, we'll create clarity from confusion. You'll walk away with:
- A clear sense of your priorities
- A visible path forward
- That wonderful "I'm finally doing this" feeling
A Gentle Warning
I should probably warn you about something: miracles tend to happen when people start this work. Not the lightning-bolt kind, but the quiet, profound kind. Relationships deepen. Priorities clarify. People often find themselves living more authentically, more joyfully.
Welcome to the rest of your life. It might just be the best chapter yet. ✨
Want to take that first step? Book your introductory session here: Let's talk
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